![]() Sweet relief for discretion’s sake and because, well, I was rooting for Dame. ![]() Duh, I thought, placing my pointer finger over the hole, then over my stomach, then over my nipple (shoe fits!). Aer’s rumble is actually pretty deep (unlike the shrieking motor of my favorite headbang dildo), and was even more muffled once the suction part touched my skin. “Mom, can you hear my vibrator?” are words I never want to say (and still haven’t, although, honestly, she DGAF last week she called a vagina a “piss flap”), so I waited to toy with the motor intensity when I knew my family was watching TV. But here’s the thing I forgot about new vibrators: if you’re afraid it will be loud in that initial unboxing, it will always seem louder. I was bummed when I turned it on and it sounded like a swarm of deep-voiced jet skis. On a scale of meh-to-astral-projection, where would this take my orgasm? Most importantly, how would it change my relationship with my clitoris? All of these questions (along with others you didn't ask) are answered below. As the first-ever suction vibrator from sex-toy darling Dame, it’s the latest addition to an impressive repertoire of toys engineered for “closing the pleasure gap” by working with actual consumers on product development. ![]() Hence, why I was jazzed to try a new suction vibrator called "Aer" in my evolving quest for cliteracy. Rude, really, when most of my climaxes have statistically been achieved through clitoral stimulation. The necessary foundation for an orgasm, as seen on MTV and in health class. ![]() These were products of a predominantly cishet, cultural obsession with vaginal penetration. I mean, we’ve been through a lot: there was The Summer of Yeast Infections the experience of visiting Judy Chicago’s art installation of plated vulvas (equal parts empowering and exclusionary) the awkward fingering of sexual partners past and uninformed masturbating techniques. This feels embarrassing to say, as a 29-year-old woman who has never had any major qualms with it. I’m trying to be less of a dick to my clitoris. ![]()
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